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FAN MAIL FRIDAYS: This Is How You Know If A Guy Truly Likes You
Happy Eid'l Fitr!
I'm playing love doctor today (haha!) because of today's FMF query by Kkumkugo. Not that I'm growing tired of answering beauty- related queries, but I LOVE today's query because it is such a refreshing break from what I usually talk about!
I've been following your blog since my first year in college. And now, I'm still an avid fan of yours when it comes to beauty-thingy. But now, I'm gonna ask something else aside from beauty. My question may sound funny to others but how would you exactly know if a guy likes you? *facepalm* This seriously makes me feel embarrassed. I don't plan on breaking my record of NBSB until I can graduate college and find a stable life. *sounds like an old lady haha* kaso my friends always tell me that I'm so numb that I can't feel the feelings of others and exaggerating it into I don't have empathy and that makes me place them in the friend category. So yeah, I want to know what does a guy normally do if he likes a girl? Based on what I've read in your past posts about your personal life, I think you can help me best with this. Thank you very much. More power and God Bless.
Story time! When my BF and I started dating, he said straight to my face on probably our third or fourth date that he liked me. I was 19 then so I was weirded out and like: "Wow, that was quick. No physical and mind games or courtship whatsoever? Just that?" I thought it was boring, but 8 years later, I realized that good thing he was upfront about it as it saved me from a lot of emotional hassle aka heartaches. I'm not good at dealing with heartaches, to be honest.
According to experience, you will know if a guy likes you if he tells you straight to your face that he does. Most guys (and this is based on my guy friends' answers) are not really into mind games--they say what they want to say and they mean it. Sure, there are signs to watch out for, but signs can be misinterpreted; If a guy likes you FOR REAL, he will tell you straight.
Please note that all guys are different though: some are straightforward while some are 'torpe' so you must take these into consideration when decoding guys. It's really hard to give advice on very personal matters like this because you're the only one who knows what's happening so instead of enumerating signs that might confuse you further, I'll just say if it feels right, go for it. If it doesn't, walk away.
Regarding your choice to stay NBSB until you graduate, that's your choice and people should not give a damn about it. It doesn't make you less of a woman if you don't have a boyfriend nor a better person if you have one. But if love comes knocking at your door, entertain it. Even if this love fails or succeeds, you will learn something valuable from it, something that you'll never learn from school.
I hope I was able to help you in any way. :)
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